There are many people who create a great profile in the online dating websites they do good online chats but when they go out for the date for the first time there occurs a problem.
How often have you thought that I will speak this time or I will do this or that for sure, only to be stopped by your shyness? It is interesting how shyness can be such a problem that it can cause you to miss out on several interesting and fun things in life.
If you are a shy person then you would rather stay at home and watch TV than go out and talk with other people. This is exactly what keeps shy people from dating.
Shy people usually do not speak too much or speak too little when among many people, especially strangers and hence, people may write them off as boring or unfriendly. However, the fact is that shyness does not in the least define whether or not you are boring or interesting, or whether you are friendly or not.
In case of shy people, friends can be of a great help. They can help you out of your own world. If you do not particularly enjoy hitting night clubs or places where you might have to interact with other people, then you can take the help of your friends.
You can go to attend some class or even go for shopping. While it may take quite some effort on your part, having a nice outgoing friend with you will surely help you get over your shyness.
Women often perceive shy men as boring or unattractive. Hence, before the man gets the chance to show who he really is, he is written off.
You can attend some classes or groups that focus on the subject that you intend to pursue. This is a good place to begin because not only will you be able to meet people here, you will get enough time to feel confident and be able to talk with them easily.
Above all, you will be able to be in a place where you are surrounded by people who share the same interest with you. Even if you do not find anyone whom you like in particular, you still are doing something that you enjoy doing. Thus, there is no loss in such a situation. If see someone you like, you can easily start a conversation with her, knowing she is in the same class with you.
Approach her calmly and nicely. You do not want to scare her. As far as possible, be natural and act normal. It might be hard for the first time, however, once you get used to it, you will find it easier.
Remember, there will be many other obstacles also when you happen to find someone. However, remain confident and secure in yourself.
Girls like to be liked and wanted for who they are and not for their bodies alone. If you are shy, you know this better than anyone else does. After all, you too want to liked for who you are in spite of your shyness.